Xa umfana uMindie Kaplan wabona ukuba wayeza kuhlawula uvavanyo lwakhe olukhawulezayo ngosuku lwesibini (ukutya endlwini yakhe), wayemangalisiwe.
U-Kaplan uthe: "Ndifuna ukwazi ukuba le yinto entsha 'yokuthenga isidlo sangokuhlwa silingana nokuhlala kude kube sebusuku'," utshilo uKaplan, ohlala e-Chelsea.Ungumthengisi wemidiya yoluntu kunye nomseki wepodcast kunye nochungechunge lwevidiyo iMaleRoom.
Aba babini bavumile ukudibana kwiziko lovavanyo olukhawulezileyo kwi-Upper West Side.Bathe besalinde isiphumo, bahamba bayokusela kwalapha ebumelwaneni.
“Kukho umngxuma esiswini sam, ‘Ndidlala njani?’” utshilo uKaplan, ongazange avume ukuchaza iminyaka yakhe.“Wayefana, 'Jonga ifowuni yakho.Ngaba kukho umphumo?’”
Uthe: "Ndithe i-app ayisebenzi kwaye ndamxelela ukuba iziphumo zam zilibazisekile."Ngaloo ndlela, ubusuku buphelile.
Abanye abantu baseNew York baya kwenza konke abanako ukunxibelelana, kubandakanya nokulungelelanisa uvavanyo olukhawulezayo ngaphambi koSuku lweValentine, olunokubiza ukuya kuthi ga kwi-129 yeedola ngokuxhomekeke kwi-inshurensi yakho.Kodwa iingcali zilumkisa ukuba uvavanyo luya kusebenza kuphela xa lwenziwe ngokuchanekileyo.
UDara Cass, ugqirha wamayeza kaxakeka kwiZiko lezoNyango leYunivesithi yaseColumbia kwisiXeko saseNew York, uthe oku kuthetha ukuba uvalelo kufuneka lwenziwe kuqala.
"Ukuba uceba ukuthandana okokuqala ngoSuku lweValentine, athini amathuba okuba elinye iqela lihlukanise bonke abahlobo, usapho kunye nomsebenzi?"UCass uthe."Oku kuthetha ukuba olu vavanyo luya kuqinisekisa abantu ukuba umntu akosuleleki."
Uvavanyo olukhawulezayo lwangaphambi kokuthandana lunokuba lunentsingiselo ngakumbi ngokwezonyango ngaphezu kwendibaniselwano, kodwa daters abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba le kuphela kwendlela yokungena kulo mmandla.
Xa uJonah Feingold eqala ukuphakuzela, waphakela iipopcorn kunye nesnacks ekhayeni lakhe okokuqala.
“Ingqondo yam yaqala ukujikeleza phezu kwentsholongwane,” utshilo uFeingold, oneminyaka engama-30, ohlala yedwa eGreenpoint.“Ndaqonda ukuba ndifanele ndithethe ngokukhangela ibhinqa elalize endlwini yam ngobo busuku lize kubukela imovie nam.”
Wabiza umhla wakhe njengomfundisi-ntsapho wase-Manhattan ohlala nabazali bakhe, kwaye ngoko nangoko wabacebisa ukuba bathathe uvavanyo olukhawulezileyo ngaphambi kokudibana.
UFeingold, umdidiyeli wefilimu nokwangumququzeleli weSeeing Other People, wathi: “Sobabini sifuna ukuvavanywa ukuze singabi naxhala ngalo lonke ixesha size sihlale kunye.”Ubudlelwane.
Nangona kungekho mntu wabelane ngomsebenzi wabo womzimba, uFeingold uthe bazele ukuzithemba ekuthumeleni imiyalezo imini yonke ukwazisa i-adventure, kubandakanya ukuthumela ii-selfies omnye komnye ngexesha lovavanyo lwe-intanethi.
Baye bagqiba ngokubagalela kwisitya esinye sepopcorn, kwaye ewe, ukuncamisana okuthile kwakubandakanyekile-konke ngaphandle kwemaski.
Wathi: “Ndicinga ukuba kufuneka ucinge ngomkhamo ofuna ukuphila ngawo kubomi bothando, nokuba wenza konke okusemandleni ukuze uhlale ukhuselekile.”
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Ixesha lokuposa: Feb-24-2021